Sex is not permitted at play parties unless it’s in the context of a bdsm scene. If you aren’t sure please ask!
The toys and furniture found throughout the Dungeon and Studio are from Ms. Di’s personal collection. You may use any of the Dungeon toys, but please ask a RB for permission before using them. If you break something, let a RB know immediately. Please ask for help if you need to move any furniture or equipment, as the vinyl on some furniture is easy to tear.
Edgeplay is allowed; however, it should only be done by experienced players. RBs must be notified BEFORE the start of the scene. Edge play can be defined as anything outside the normal range of play for YOU. Examples include Consensual Non Consent (CNC), blood play, breath play, venom play, needle play, etc.
Messy play is play that is likely to require significant clean-up or involves bodily fluids. This type of play includes splooshing, piss play, wax play, blood play, etc. Plastic is available and should be used to cover the furniture and flooring. Ask a RB for direction to an appropriate location for messy scenes BEFORE starting the scene. Scat play is not allowed.
Gag loud bottoms. This is distracting to everyone else in the dungeon and it’s rude!
Unless you hear the word ‘Mayday,’ NEVER INTERRUPT A SCENE! Again, if you are bothered by something, walk away. If you feel that something you see is extreme, risky, or in no way consensual to you, please speak with a RB. If corrective action is needed, a RB will see to the responsibility.
Do not join a scene, even if it looks like they are free-for-alls. You should never ask to, or attempt to enter a scene in progress.
Do not touch a bottom during or immediately after a scene. The Top is responsible for the bottom’s emotional and physical well-being for the entirety of their play, including aftercare.
NEVER abandon a bottom during a scene. If you must step away from a bottom for an emergency issue, you must engage a RB to stay with your bottom and ensure their safety.
Never bring another person into your scene unless you have negotiated this with your bottom before the scene begins.
Stop play immediately if blood is visible. The bleeding needs to be covered before play can continue.
Clean all furniture and areas used in your play before leaving. Cleaning products can be found in the pass thru. If you have any questions about cleaning or supplies, please ask a RB.
The rules apply to EVERYONE, members, guests, board members and owners!