Q: What if I run into someone I know?
A: You’re both here for the same reason—we value discretion and expect the same from all attendees.
Q: What should I wear?
A: Most wear casual clothes—think “Tuesday dinner with friends.” Fetish or clubwear is welcome and usually earns compliments!
Q: What should I bring for a snack?
A: We have a sign-up list on our discord server, if you aren’t on discord please ask.
Q: Wait, you have a Discord server?
A: Yes we do and as soon as meet you we’ll be happy to add you!
Q: What if someone asks me to play and I’m not interested?
A: Politely decline. If they persist, notify a Red Band (dungeon monitor) or Ms. Di right away.
Q: What if someone won’t take no for an answer?
A: Tell Ms. Di or a Red Band (dungeon monitor) immediately. We take consent seriously and will address it.
Q: Why do I need to be vetted to attend parties?
A: Events are held on private property. Vetting helps keep our space safe and welcoming—for everyone.
Q: What’s the typical age range at events?
A: Most attendees are 21–50+, with the average falling around 26–32.
Q: How much does it cost?
- Coffee/dinners: Pay for your own food/drink
- Educationals: $10–$20 per person