Q: What is the guest policy?
For social events (coffee, lunch, dinner, etc.) that do NOT take place at the dungeon:
Guests are not permitted. Everyone attending must have their own FetLife account and RSVP individually.
FetLife is an open platform—anyone can create an account. There is no reason to bring a guest to casual meetups. If they want to come, they can sign up and join like everyone else.
For educationals:
Only fully vetted members (those wearing black name tags) may bring up to TWO guests with board approval.
The guest must:
- Have a FetLife ID and RSVP.
- Be named in advance by messaging either @thesocietybdsm or @MsDi with their FetLife ID.
Please remember your guests reflect upon you, choose your guests carefully!
No last-minute +1s. If they’re not on the list, they don’t get in.