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Eastern Carolina's Longest Running BDSM Education Group

Eastern Carolina's Longest Running BDSM Education Group

Each One, Teach One

  • About Us
  • Calendar
  • Policies
    • Non-Discrimination Policy
    • Anti-Harassment Policy
    • Privacy Policy
    • Group Grievances
    • Consent and Resolutions
  • Join Us
    • How to get vetted
    • Guests
    • Late/No-Show policy
    • F.A.Q.
    • Coming to the dungeon
      • Orientation
      • What is a Red Band?
      • Name Badges
  • Play Space Rules
  • Shareable Resources
    • Consent and Negotiation
      • Negotiation Worksheet
      • How to Negotiate a BDSM Scene
      • What is a BDSM checklist?
      • How Do I Know When It’s Okay to Ask Someone to Play or Try Something?
      • How can I approach someone for a scene?
      • How to Handle Being Told “No”
      • How Do I Know When It’s Okay to Ask Someone to Play or Try Something?
    • Newbie Frenzy
    • Finding a BDSM group right for you
    • Finding your limits in BDSM
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How to get vetted

Why we vet:
Our dungeon is on private property, and we take the safety and privacy of our members seriously. Vetting helps us get to know you before granting access to private events.

Step 1: Attend one public meetup
Join us for a dinner, brunch, coffee, or whips-in-the-park.
Once we’ve met you and had a chance to chat, you’ll be allowed to RSVP for dungeon events. You’re now vetted!

Step 2: Become a full member
After attending 3 more dungeon events (play party or otherwise), you’ll earn full membership status and receive a black lanyard for your name tag.

The group policy is that you must be revetted after 6 months of absence, if you haven’t been around for 6 or more months you will have to go through either the vetting process again or orientation and possibly both depending on circumstances.

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