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Eastern Carolina's Longest Running BDSM Education Group

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Name Badges

How to Spot Who’s Who – Name Badges & Lanyards

We use name badges and lanyards to help everyone know who’s who in the group. Here’s what each color means:

🔶 Yellow Tags & Lanyards
These belong to our newest friends—folks who have been part of the group for 3 months or less. They might ask lots of questions (and we hope they do!). Please be extra patient, and if you’re not sure of an answer, point them toward a Red Band for help.

🟢 Green Lanyards
These are our official greeters—kind of like Walmart greeters, but kinkier! You probably got a friendly message from a Greeter when you RSVP’d for your first lunch or dinner. When you arrive at the dungeon for the first time, you’ll “know” someone. Greeters will help you through check-in, answer your questions, and introduce you around. They specialize in welcoming nervous newcomers, so don’t hesitate to reach out—they are ideal hand-holders!

⚫ Black Lanyards
Most members wear these. If you see someone with a black lanyard, it means they’ve been around for a while and generally have a good idea of how things work.

🔴 Red Lanyards
These are worn by our Red Bands—our version of Dungeon Monitors. They supervise the play space, help keep everyone safe, and make sure we all have fun. Red Bands are some of our most knowledgeable and trusted members. If you have a question or need assistance, they’re your best go-to.

✨ Fancy Pants Name Tags
These special tags mark our board members, which is about as close to modern-day slavery as you can get. We pay them in cheap plastic tags and the occasional cupcake for all the work they do behind the scenes. If you get the chance to say thank you, they’d definitely appreciate it (they don’t hear it nearly enough).

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