{"id":163,"date":"2022-12-15T14:05:39","date_gmt":"2022-12-15T19:05:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thesocietybdsm.com\/bdsm\/?page_id=163"},"modified":"2025-06-27T07:50:32","modified_gmt":"2025-06-27T12:50:32","slug":"f-a-q","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/thesocietybdsm.com\/bdsm\/f-a-q\/","title":{"rendered":"F.A.Q."},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Q: What if I run into someone I know?<br>A: You\u2019re both here for the same reason\u2014we value discretion and expect the same from all attendees.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Q: What should I wear?<br>A: Most wear casual clothes\u2014think &#8220;Tuesday dinner with friends.&#8221; Fetish or clubwear is welcome and usually earns compliments!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Q: What should I bring for a snack?<br>A: We have a sign-up list on our discord server, if you aren&#8217;t on discord please ask.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Q: Wait, you have a Discord server?<br>A: Yes we do and as soon as meet you we&#8217;ll be happy to add you!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Q: What if someone asks me to play and I\u2019m not interested?<br>A: Politely decline. If they persist, notify a Red Band (dungeon monitor) or Ms. Di right away.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Q: What if someone won\u2019t take no for an answer?<br>A: Tell Ms. Di or a Red Band (dungeon monitor) immediately. We take consent seriously and will address it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Q: Why do I need to be vetted to attend parties?<br>A: Events are held on private property. Vetting helps keep our space safe and welcoming\u2014for everyone.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Q: What\u2019s the typical age range at events?<br>A: Most attendees are 21\u201350+, with the average falling around 26\u201332.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Q: How much does it cost?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Coffee\/dinners: Pay for your own food\/drink<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Educationals: $10\u2013$20 per person<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Q: What if I run into someone I know?A: You\u2019re both here for the same reason\u2014we value discretion and expect the same from all attendees. Q: What should I wear?A:&#8230;<\/p>\n<p class=\"more-link-wrap\"><a href=\"https:\/\/thesocietybdsm.com\/bdsm\/f-a-q\/\" class=\"more-link\">Read More<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &ldquo;F.A.Q.&rdquo;<\/span> &raquo;<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"parent":0,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":{"footnotes":""},"class_list":["post-163","page","type-page","status-publish","hentry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/thesocietybdsm.com\/bdsm\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/163","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/thesocietybdsm.com\/bdsm\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/thesocietybdsm.com\/bdsm\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/page"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietybdsm.com\/bdsm\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietybdsm.com\/bdsm\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=163"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietybdsm.com\/bdsm\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/163\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":334,"href":"https:\/\/thesocietybdsm.com\/bdsm\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/163\/revisions\/334"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/thesocietybdsm.com\/bdsm\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=163"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}